Men's Sexual Mastery, 12-Week Group Training
You've tried everything.
Except this.
Willpower, therapy, men's groups, NoFap. You've put in real effort and still find yourself back in the same cycle. That's not a failure of discipline. It's a missing system. MSM gives you the practices, the container, and the brotherhood to finally move what nothing else has moved.
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The real problem
You know something is
quietly draining you.
You perform in every visible area of your life, career, fitness, self-development. You're serious about all of it. But there's a private domain you've never been able to crack, and you've been carrying it for too long now.
The good news is you're not alone. In the absence of any meaningful sexual education, many men experience:
- A compulsive pattern you've kept hidden because it's felt impossible to change
- The cycle: resolve, collapse, shame, reset. For years.
- A relationship that's functional but has lost its heat
- The sense that something vital in you isn't fully showing up
- The resentment of having worked on yourself in every domain and still being here
If this is the most specific description of your experience you've encountered, you're in the right place.
The training
Six modules. Twelve weeks.
One complete system.
Retrain your sexual responses. Practices you do daily that change your nervous system, your relationship with sexual energy, and your presence in every room you walk into.
Module 01
Foundations
Patch the energy leaks. Build the internal container. Connect with the version of you that doesn't run from this.
Module 02
Transmutation
Cultivate and circulate sexual energy. Separate orgasm from ejaculation. Begin solo cultivation practice.
Module 03
Regulation
Master the nervous system and breath. Build ejaculation control. Unlock multi-orgasmic capacity.
Module 04
Optimization
Nutrition, sleep, movement, and hormonal grounding for peak sexual vitality.
Module 05
Attunement
Female anatomy, psychology, and embodied presence. Becoming a lover who can actually read the room.
Module 06
Amplification
Polarity, masculine leadership, and sustaining real erotic charge in long-term relationship.
What's included
- Weekly group training callsLive with Ben and Ian, recorded, focused on the work, not general check-ins
- Monthly 1:1 breakthrough sessionsA private session each month to go deeper on what's personally moving, or stuck, for you
- Daily accountability containerPaired with a brother in the cohort who is doing the same work at the same time
- Full 6-module coursePractices, frameworks, and guided sessions you can access and return to any time
- Brotherhood communityMen doing real work, not just talking about it
- Alumni access after graduationOngoing training and support after the 12-week group training for those interested in results
Results
What shifts in
twelve weeks.
"I cannot overstate how impactful this program has been for me and my relationship with my wife. We had experiences during this program that were life-changing. I just can't recommend it enough."
"I spent a decade of time and money on therapy and 12-step for porn addiction. Nothing educated me about my sexuality and how to direct it. I understand it now and I'm having better sex than I've ever had in my life."
"These 12 weeks have enacted the most change of any time I've engaged trying to be the man I want to be."
"I've been looking for this for years. I had a lot of this knowledge, but I was missing the implementation piece. My life, my relationships, my presence has evolved and deepened. I'm in this for life."
"This has been an answer to many prayers. It has completely changed the game for me and has been so hugely beneficial to my relationship. The lovemaking sessions have been unlike anything we've ever experienced."
"This course has been life-changing. I feel more powerful, more connected to myself, more disciplined. I recommend this to any man who wants to harness his energy to become strong, disciplined, and a great lover."
Your guides
Ben Timby & Ian Hawks
Ben Timby
Co-founder, MSM
Ben Timby is a transformational coach and spiritual guide who founded Men's Sexual Mastery in 2024. His work draws on Tantric and Taoist sexual technologies gathered from mentors and teachers around the world. His own path began in a conservative religious background marked by sexual suppression, porn addiction, and depression, and it led him to discover that transforming one's relationship with sexuality changes everything else. That realization became MSM.
Ian Hawks
Co-founder, MSM
Ian Hawks joined MSM as Co-Founder in 2025, deeply aligned in mission and committed to building the most impactful version of the program possible. He serves as an initiatory guide, breathwork facilitator, and sacred sexuality mentor. Having spent over a decade in devotion to these teachings and practices, Ian now guides men to embody the full truth of their being. Alongside his partner, he supports couples in deepening intimacy, trust, and relational fulfillment.
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We look forward to connecting with you brother.